What to Expect at a Session
I am always open to the messages that come through, and I believe the best readings come to those who are open as well. Each person is unique, especially in their beliefs and ideas, and so each reading follows their own individual path.
I ask that you leave your expectations at the door and allow yourself to listen to what comes through. Nothing is more disappointing than hoping for your Mother to show up and someone else comes through instead. That's not to say your Mother is not around you; it's simply a matter of what you need to hear, and from whom, at that time.
Equally important is to understand that it is up to spirit, not me and not you, as to what messages come through and from whom. Therefore once a reading is booked, the intent has already been acknowledged by the universe and the information that follows is meant specifically for that person. I cannot make promises of who or what will emerge from a reading. I never know. I leave the guidance to them if they want you to come to me or if they are going to deliver the message. I shift the responsibility to them to make whatever it is that they want to happen, happen.
Yet don't be surprised when I give you some information that you may not know about. There is usually someone in the family that can explain it as well as validate it. Sometimes this may take weeks or months but the finding can often bring greater understanding. Know that spirit does not hang up the phone when we do; in fact, I often receive emails from clients many months after a reading when something that did not "fit" during the reading has suddenly made sense.
Very often, names will sound the same, like Helen & Ellen; Dan & Don; Ted & Fred;, Jordan, Jordie, Jody; Charles, Charlie for example. If you hear me trying to sound out these types of names, please do not sit there and wait for the exact names. Birthdays, numbers, anniversaries, and deaths all mean the same to me as well, when I pass on info about dates or significant numbers.
I will give you the information before you tell me anything. All I ask is that you work with me.
If I am seeing a symbol for an apple, I will just say the word “apple”. It may not that you like fruit, but you could may have grown up on Apple Street or lived near apple orchards. I have to give it as I am getting it or I may misinterpret the message. Often, I find that I will attempt to try and make some sense of what may be coming through, but it is from my perspective. This does not mean that I am wrong, it just means that I am trying to figure out what it means from the perspective of an outside observer. Only you may know what the information means to you. So if you see me trying to give you information that applies to you and you know what it means before I try and analyze the info, I ask that you please stop me from moving forward in the analysis process and just let me know right upfront that you understand what it means. It will save us much time and we can move right along with the next piece of information that needs to be delivered to you. Please listen to what information is coming forward, it may mean NOTHING to me but could be very significant to you. Also please DO NOT wait to hear what YOU "WANT" to hear. I can only give you what I am getting, and interpret the information to the best of my ability.
All kinds of evidence come out in a session, whether it is significant or what may seem to you to be quite trivial. I will often give pieces of information that may not seem symbolic to you at that moment, but if you ask around to a relative or friend, you may find out what I stated does in fact apply to you or your loved one. People often respond back to me to let me know how the information applied. Ex: I once had a friend that was visiting with me at a coffee shop and her Aunt Dot came through. I told her about a distinctive firework that she kept showing me which looked somewhat like a rocket. I had no idea if this was in reference to patriotism for the USA, the 4th of July, or just a firework. My friend said she didn't know what it meant. I insisted this is what she was showing me. Well, few days later I received the call that Aunt Dot's daughter confirmed that Aunt Dots favorite firework was the Roman Candle and she loved them. It was a signature piece of information coming from Aunt Dot!
So ALWAYS remain open to what is given.
And remember that all the information given is always a gift in its own way!!
I ask that you leave your expectations at the door and allow yourself to listen to what comes through. Nothing is more disappointing than hoping for your Mother to show up and someone else comes through instead. That's not to say your Mother is not around you; it's simply a matter of what you need to hear, and from whom, at that time.
Equally important is to understand that it is up to spirit, not me and not you, as to what messages come through and from whom. Therefore once a reading is booked, the intent has already been acknowledged by the universe and the information that follows is meant specifically for that person. I cannot make promises of who or what will emerge from a reading. I never know. I leave the guidance to them if they want you to come to me or if they are going to deliver the message. I shift the responsibility to them to make whatever it is that they want to happen, happen.
Yet don't be surprised when I give you some information that you may not know about. There is usually someone in the family that can explain it as well as validate it. Sometimes this may take weeks or months but the finding can often bring greater understanding. Know that spirit does not hang up the phone when we do; in fact, I often receive emails from clients many months after a reading when something that did not "fit" during the reading has suddenly made sense.
Very often, names will sound the same, like Helen & Ellen; Dan & Don; Ted & Fred;, Jordan, Jordie, Jody; Charles, Charlie for example. If you hear me trying to sound out these types of names, please do not sit there and wait for the exact names. Birthdays, numbers, anniversaries, and deaths all mean the same to me as well, when I pass on info about dates or significant numbers.
I will give you the information before you tell me anything. All I ask is that you work with me.
If I am seeing a symbol for an apple, I will just say the word “apple”. It may not that you like fruit, but you could may have grown up on Apple Street or lived near apple orchards. I have to give it as I am getting it or I may misinterpret the message. Often, I find that I will attempt to try and make some sense of what may be coming through, but it is from my perspective. This does not mean that I am wrong, it just means that I am trying to figure out what it means from the perspective of an outside observer. Only you may know what the information means to you. So if you see me trying to give you information that applies to you and you know what it means before I try and analyze the info, I ask that you please stop me from moving forward in the analysis process and just let me know right upfront that you understand what it means. It will save us much time and we can move right along with the next piece of information that needs to be delivered to you. Please listen to what information is coming forward, it may mean NOTHING to me but could be very significant to you. Also please DO NOT wait to hear what YOU "WANT" to hear. I can only give you what I am getting, and interpret the information to the best of my ability.
All kinds of evidence come out in a session, whether it is significant or what may seem to you to be quite trivial. I will often give pieces of information that may not seem symbolic to you at that moment, but if you ask around to a relative or friend, you may find out what I stated does in fact apply to you or your loved one. People often respond back to me to let me know how the information applied. Ex: I once had a friend that was visiting with me at a coffee shop and her Aunt Dot came through. I told her about a distinctive firework that she kept showing me which looked somewhat like a rocket. I had no idea if this was in reference to patriotism for the USA, the 4th of July, or just a firework. My friend said she didn't know what it meant. I insisted this is what she was showing me. Well, few days later I received the call that Aunt Dot's daughter confirmed that Aunt Dots favorite firework was the Roman Candle and she loved them. It was a signature piece of information coming from Aunt Dot!
So ALWAYS remain open to what is given.
And remember that all the information given is always a gift in its own way!!
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